Wednesday, June 6, 2012

Ellen Breakell Neibaur's Precious Shoes

Ellen Breakell Neibaur
1811-1870
By Stephanie Johnson
Ellen watched her husband pore over the book. Ever since they had heard from a neighbor that there were some new missionaries from America in town, all he had done was read the Book of Mormon.  It was published by the newly formed Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints.  Over the next few weeks, Alexander patiently read to Ellen from the Book of Mormon for hours every night. By the time they came to the end, Ellen had come to admire the book and enjoy listening to it, but she wasn’t impressed.  One night, though, she had a dream which convinced her of the truth of the restored gospel. She was baptized soon after.

Ellen Breakell was born February 28, 1811, in Preston, England to Richard and Alice Breakell. She married Alexander Neibaur on September 16, 1833. By the time they heard of the missionaries in 1837, they had two children, Joseph and Margaret. They were very comfortable with Alexander working in town as a dentist.

On February 5, 1841, with four kids in tow and another baby on the way, they left Ellen’s childhood town and started out for the gathering place of the saints. They were greeted in Nauvoo by Heber C. Kimball and Willard Richards, the missionaries who had baptized them in England. Over the next few years, they welcomed two more children into their family, Alexander received the priesthood and was ordained a seventy.  And the couple received their endowments and were sealed together for time and all eternity in the Nauvoo Temple.

The happiness and prosperity of Nauvoo was not to last. In the end, the persecution and hard times caught up with them. It was doubly hard with the martyrdom of Joseph and Hyrum, as their families had all become good friends. Although most of the saints left Nauvoo in February 1846, the Neibaurs stayed in Nauvoo through the summer.  Ellen was expecting another baby and this time was in no condition to travel.  After delivering a healthy baby girl, Leah, on August 29, 1946, they prepared to leave. Ten days later the family, comprised of six children and a newborn, walked away from their home in Nauvoo. 

Ellen soon became sick as they arrived in Winter Quarters.  A kind church member cared for Ellen, putting her to bed and caring for her baby until Ellen was well enough to care for her family.  This care lasted for several weeks.  Ellen was so grateful for the help she received. 

They camped in Winter Quarters until they could gather supplies to travel westward, which took over a year.  When they were ready, they joined the Brigham Young company and began their trek on June 4, 1848 across the plains.  Crossing the plains, Ellen now found herself with more to do than ever before. Ellen carried the new and oftentimes sick baby in one arm and drove the lead cows with the other.  She milked the cows and took care of the chores when the company camped at night.  Walking several thousand miles ruined Ellen’s shoes.  By the end of the journey, Ellen had discarded her shoes and was wrapping her sore feet in rags. 

It was a great sight for them when they finally reached the valley on September 20, 1848. They set up house in a tent and Alexander began to practice dentistry again, becoming the first dentist in Utah.  Many of his patients paid in goods at first, but eventually Alexander began to bring in money.  When he had saved up a little money, Alexander gave Ellen a beautiful new pair of shoes.  For the next few days, Ellen could be found madly knitting a beautiful pair of socks to go with the wonderful pair of shoes. Finally she could remove the rags from her feet.

One morning, soon after she finished making her socks, a collector came by the Neibaurs’ house to find Ellen in her new socks and shoes.  A new company of pioneers were coming into town and the collectors were gathering supplies for the refugees.  Alexander told the men they had nothing to spare, but Ellen interrupted and asked them to wait a moment.  She took off her new socks and shoes and handed them to the collector.  She wrapped her own feet in rags once more.  It had been hard for her to give up her shoes, but she remembered the kindness offered to her and her family once they reached the Salt Lake Valley and in Winter Quarters, and all along the way. 

When the next company of Mormon immigrants arrived, the people of Salt Lake came out to greet them.  Ellen was overjoyed to see one of her old friends from England among the Saints.  Looking down, Ellen noticed that her good friend was wearing the very shoes and stockings she had donated a few weeks before. Her sacrifice had become a great blessing to not just any newcomer, but to a dear friend. 

Works Cited:



Bassett, Theda. Grandpa Neibaur was a Pioneer. Salt Lake City: Artistic Printing, 1988.

Carpenter, Ellen Wilde. The Story of Ellen Breakel Neibaur. 17 July 2011 <http://www.neibaur.org/journals/ellen.htm>.

Story written in good faith using the available resources.

The comprehensive biography by Ellen W. Carpenter is excellent! 

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